A back rub, while divine, is NOT a sensual massage. A back rub is powerful, short and effective at ridding your body of tension, aches and pains. Sensual massage is long, languorous and erotic, and involves a great deal of nudity and intimate touching. You give your mom a back rub. You give your lover a sensual massage.
If you've never given one of these wonderfully erotic massages, never fear. They will leave you feeling and acting like an experienced sensual masseuse or masseur. OOH LA LA
Make sure you have the following items on hand:
Candles and/or incense
Romantic CDs
Clean towels
Clean flat sheet
Some Type of Massage Oil
Really connect with your lover, hold them, kiss them it is all about touching and being touched.
When you both feel connected, invite your partner to lie face down on the massage table or bed, and arrange pillows and towels to his or her liking.
Start by lightly rubbing your partner's body with the tips of your fingers. Start with the back, and then move to the shoulders, arms, buttocks, thighs and calves. Remember to use only light, teasing strokes. When you sense that your partner is relaxed (you might have to ask), you are ready to progress to massage.
When the oil is warm and evenly distributed, begin massaging your partner's back with long, deep strokes. communicate frequently with your partner to determine if the strokes are too hard or too soft. Keep your hands on your partner at all times, take your time with each rhythmic-yet-sensitive stroke, and proceed from long, gliding strokes to shorter, deeper strokes.
Ask your lover to turn over then start at the top of their body massaging and work your way down. Look into your lovers eyes when you get to the love parts of the body showing them that you are interested in every part of their body.
After the massaging is finished and you are both relaxed, remember to spend some time together before falling asleep or running out the door. You have both just shared an extremely intimate experience. Hold each other, talk to each other, and enjoy the intimacy as long as you can. Be positive about the experience, especially if it was your first time. Remember, practice makes perfect!
This article comes from A Beginner's Guide to Sensual Meassage.
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Wednesday, June 11, 2008
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